INFIDELITY RECOVERY
“But a man who commits adultery has no sense; whoever does so destroys himself. Blows and disgrace are his lot, and his shame will never be wiped away. For jealousy arouses a husband’s fury, and he will show no mercy when he takes revenge. He will not accept any compensation; he will refuse a bribe, however great it is”- Prov 6v32-35
Don’t be so quick to give up on the years of investment in your marriage. Yes you are hurt, but think about the impact divorce is going to have on your kids, family and friends mental state, your finances and the dreams you still wanted to achieve together.
Don’t write your relationship off yet, people do mistakes. Lets do a marriage audit first so you can both make an informed decision forward without any emotions taking over your judgement. A broken marriage trust can be rebuilt after an affair, many have!
It is possible for a couple to go on to have a happier stronger relationship after an infidelity, provided they are willing to forgive and to put in the work. A couple can survive and grow further after an affair, they have to - otherwise the relationship will never be gratifying, unless they are really prepared to watch their family fall apart and all the years of hard work invested into the marriage wasted.